Young Mothers Diary

Daycare???? yes or no

2011-11-09T09:28:00.000-08:00

OK don't get me wrong i think daycare is great for kids. Especially because it teaches them social skills and prepares them for grade school. But why is that they only actually teach the pre k children. My son just turned 3 as you all know and if he went to daycare he would just play all day. He can stay home a play all day for free, lol. Every morning after breakfast we do a lesson, flash cards, reading, practicing his writing, and we do an arts and craft. Wether its painting, coloring a pictures, or even making something with his playdough. Now i do paln to enroll him in a child car facitlity but if he is going to attend i would really feel like im getting my moneys worth if they taught him something. Im looking into private school thats pretty much the only way he would get everything daycare has to offer for his age. TTYL

I Cant Believe It!!!!!

2011-11-08T17:32:00.000-08:00

I try not to to much depend on my children's fathers to much because I'm very independent. yes both my children have different fathers i can admit i was ashamed at first but then i realized that God would never put anything on me that i couldn't handle. I love both my children to death and that fact that there dads aren't supportive will never effect how i feel for them. Anyway i have been saving for Christmas shopping and try to get things together for holidays pictures. So i called each dad and asked if would like to contribute to either pictures or Christmas fund. I wasn't expecting much based on the past they haven't really been supportive financially. But today i was out right shocked my sons day volunteered to pay for the pictures. My daughters father said he would pay for her first pair of earrings and to have them pierced and on top of that he said i could choose whatever i wanted just send him the bill. I literally almost creid for the first there dads wanted to be apart of the things i wanted to do for the kids. I dont know what it was maybe its because the holidays are coming but i hope it last. Still in shock!!!!! TTYL

O How I Missed Thee!!!

2011-11-06T16:30:00.000-08:00

OMG, I missed you so much blog, sorry i have been away for so long. You know a mothers job is never done, lol. But here are some updates my sons B Day party was HUGE success. He had a great time and so did everyone who attended.I will post some pics very soon. Next mission getting my daughters ears pierced and getting ready for her dedication at church. Another function i have to plan, lol but its all worth for the luvs of my life, my kids<3. TTYL soon!!!!

His Big Day!!!!!

2011-09-30T18:26:00.000-07:00

Hey sorry i been gone for so long I have been very busy with putting together my sons big b day party. Anyway today was his Bday and i let him open a few of his gift and we went out to dinner, just a normal calm day with the family. We made candy apples(he luvs them) that we ate went we got back from dinner,but tomorrow is the big party i hope everything goes smoothly and he has a great time which I'm sure he will but ya never know what could go wrong. I bought him a soccer ball and net and all the equipment he was so excited, i plan on signing him up for soccer next week he just luvs it that and football, but he a boy so what else is there lol. I wanted to start him on violin lesions because i play and i think it would be great if he could learn but his father thinks he should play the drums or something easier, idk why though i think he just doesn't expect him to play an instrument just sports,but we will see i have a few months to decide definitely before spring i want him to start lesions during the summer.My sweet baby girl has just being going along for the ride these past few days with all the party stuff going on, she is such a great baby she doesn't cry much i can take her anywhere and know she wont start screaming, lol i luv my kids best gift God ever gave me<3...wish i could write more i have to finish my checklist for tomorrow, until next time.

I'm Stressed Out Over a Kids Party!!!!!

2011-09-23T14:55:00.000-07:00

As you all know i have been playing my sons B Day party for next sat and im so ready for it to be over already there is so much you have to do to plan a party even more when its for a child. I only have a week left and i still have a ton of stuff to do. On top of that the women who is supose to design the cake just called and told me she hasent even come up with a design yet. Like how hard could it be to come up with a spider man theme design. Im ready to just go to my local grocery store and get the cake. Anyway its just been a rough week my daughter had her 2 month check up and of course she had to get shots so she has been moody and all the running around that we usual do during the week(play dates and kid functions) but i made sure that this week there will be no extra outings that dont have to do with the party. I invited a few select parents of my sons closest friends to come back to my house after the party for a lite dinner so they can break in his new club house.Thinking about all the things that have to be done i should have just hierd a party planner lol, who am i kidding i cant afford a planner im way over budget for this party as is, but its for my baby so its worth it every penny......<3 my children........Untill Next Time!!!!!

My Business Journey

2011-09-18T17:34:00.000-07:00

Lately i have been thinking about starting my own business.Now i know a lot of people probably go through this but i actually have been focused on the idea.At first i thought it was just a thought that came to mind because I'm a stay at home mom and ya know i get bored once and while.Then i did a little research on owning a business and it could be a very prosperous business if done correctly. and did u know that more then 60% of women owned businesses do better then men owned businesses( i wonder why? lol). Anyway i was thinking about the type of business i want to own and i definitely want it to be children involved because if u think about it there will always be children no matter what the human race will never stop reproducing so i don't have to worry about not having customers lol. But i wanna own something they will attract kids a place where they can have fun as well as educate them. People don't realize this but i child can learn anything u wanna tech them as long as u make it enjoyable, nobody not even u want to do something that's boring. I want it to have different attractions and a place where they can just be kids. Of course i haven't forgotten about the adults lol you will be able to enjoy as well. I got my ideas from a place where i went on many field trips as a kid I luved this place i still remember going there Its called the Please Touch Museum(www.pleasetouchmuseum.org ) . Its a great place for kids and its not just a hour or so place but u can actually make it a day trip activity i encourage parents to check out the website you wont be disappointed. But a lot of my inspirations comes from places i went to as a child, i would like to roll that into to one big place and call it my own, well for the kids lol.But one step at at time i have i idea i just have to do more research and see if this is definitely something i would like to pursue in my future..Untill Next Time (the baby is waking up) ttyl

Couldnt wait to Blog

2011-09-18T17:05:00.000-07:00

Its been a few days. I have been wanting to post for the past few days but having children not everything goes as plans.Last few days have been busy, doctors appointments, party planning, and me and the kids had to attend a party yesterday so that was hectic. You have to bring a gift and ya know prepare yourself for the party, but its worth it i luv seeing me kids smile and just have a good time especially my son since his at that age he luvs to play all the time and he makes friends quickly,this party I'm having for him for his B Day theres is going to be 30 kids and thats just how many invites i sent out, i invited a few people just over the phone and ya know word of mouth.But its will be great i will post pics on here after the party. Now lets talk about me..

My Dream about Blogging!

2011-09-15T09:42:00.000-07:00

OK yesterday was my first blog. Last night i had i dream that i just sat in front of the computer and blogged for hours. I was so excited to post a new blog today that i had a dream about it, that's crazy. Anyway in my dream i had become like a master blogger.My blog had become so big that i got a full blown website and i was making all this money, i even went on Oprah lol, book publishers were calling me asking me to write a book about the things i posted on my blog. It was kool( i like to spell things my own special way lol) maybe that could actually happen. I wouldn't mind if i could make some money off my blog. At this point I'm just learning about the blog thing and i think that's one of the fun parts about it my own little journey. I told my son(3 in two weeks) that i created a blog and i needed mommy time so i can write.So i put one of his favorite movies on(toy story3) and i when and sat down in front of the computer he cums in the room and yells "AHHHH BLOG MOMMY RUN ITS GOING TO GET YOU" lmbo then he comes back in the room and says "mommy blog gone now check your email " He has is own little adventure going all day everyday. I was making a lot of phone calls this morning I'm throwing him a surprise party for his birthday shh don't tell, lol and of course the theme is Toy Story,he cant get enough of it. If i would let him he would literally sit in front of the tv all day and watch it over and over. I recently started letting him the computer, ya know nickjr, and the first time i played with him, showed him what buttons to press and what he can and cant do, so the next day after we did some flash cards he asked if he could get on so i said sure so i get to the nickjr site and then i went to get another chair so i could play with him and he says"no mommy I'm a a big boy no help" I was in shock i stood there and watch him for a bit and he was working the games all on his own i mean going from game to game flowing the directions it was amazing . Sometimes i under estimate how smart he is. I see great things in his future. at this rate he might be teaching me about computers lol....Untill Next Time( which will probably when the kids are in bed)

My First Blog

2011-09-14T20:38:00.000-07:00

I finally did it, I created my blog. i kept putting it off saying i would wait untill i had more time or it would be to hard, but i did it I put my little ones to bed and i sat down and here I am. Now its my time to share my thoughts, feelings, goal, or whatever comes to mind. I wanna start with why i decided to call it young mothers diary. First off im a mother duh lol, second im young 22 to be exsact i was 19 when i had my first child (a boy) and i just had my second a few months ago ( a girl) and the diary part should be self exsplanatory. Now im sure some readers will judge the fact that i have to childern at this age and probably think i was a wild child or something but guess what i dont care,think what you want its a free country. I love both my children and im glad that i was fortunate to have both of them. Dont worry im done having kids lol promise i have more then i can handle with my two. Now im going to always be honest about my what i post on my blogs because i consider this my diary. Both of my children were accidents yes i said it they were not planned but thats ok because now a day who plans on having a baby. Having a baby cost so much u have to leterally make a budget plan for the first 18 years of life. Its like buying a car you have to feed them(gas), doctor and dental care(maintenance) colleage fund(blue book value) lmbo and yes i made that up off the top of my head. If i could go back in my past and change thing would i? yes i probably would but i dont think i would change having both of my children in my life honestly i cant even picture life without them they are my greatest motivation. they are the reason i even get out of bed in the morning(literally)lol.....Untill tomorrow..I cant wait!!!